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In Defense of Adultery
Adultery can be excused when coercive monogamy leads to sexual deprivation.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 295 min read
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Polyamory, Feminism and the Myth of the Noble Savage
A critical examination of the idea that prehistorical humans were egalitarians and polyamorous.
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 11, 202311 min read
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Being Monogamous and Altruistic Is Driven by Oxytocin in the Brain
Oxytocin and vasopressin in the brain drive monogamy, altruistic punishment in the ultimatum game, and social bonding.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 26, 20224 min read
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Love On Trial
How romantic love is poisoned by myths about sexual exclusivity, possession, jealousy, eternal love, mind reading and dependence.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 5, 20228 min read
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When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Secret Relationship
The story Olivia and Paul are polyamorous. They have been married for many years. All that time, they have had an open relationship,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 19, 20226 min read
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When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Monogamous Intruder
Some people come to polyamory with a secret agenda The story Janet meets Keith at the party of some common friends. He’s handsome, witty,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 13, 20225 min read
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