Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 15
- 13 min
The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 6
- 3 min
Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 22, 2022
- 11 min
Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
A survey of sadists reveals that they inflict pain to achieve pleasure, connection and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 1, 2022
- 10 min
Scientists Find the Areas of the Brain Involved in Masochism
Masochist pain activates brain areas involved in empathy, emotion and consciousness, but not in addiction.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 13, 2022
- 5 min
How to Achieve Sub Space
In BDSM, sub space is an altered state of consciousness mediated by adrenaline and endorphins.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 11, 2022
- 8 min
Why Do Masochists Enjoy Pain?
Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Oct 26, 2022
- 10 min
Playing With Fire
Fire play in BDSM consists of setting the skin briefly on fire, or touching it with a flame.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Oct 4, 2022
- 12 min
The Art of Spanking
A spanking weaves an erotic theme using the position of the bodies, force of the slaps, cadence and ritual.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jul 28, 2022
- 9 min
Top Disease
Top disease in BDSM is behaving as a dominant with people who have not consented to dominance-submission.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jul 27, 2022
- 8 min
Cecilia’s First Spanking
Spanking scene in which Cecilia overcomes her religious repression and offers her naked bottom to Julio
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jul 8, 2022
- 10 min
Sexual Service and Domination in BDSM
Dominance/submission uses vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and fucking machines for sexual control.
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Hermes Solenzol
- May 14, 2022
- 12 min
Orgasm Control and Chastity in BDSM
BDSM sexual control include edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, conditioned orgasm, forced orgasms, penis cages and chastity belts.
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Hermes Solenzol
- May 3, 2022
- 8 min
The Art of Caning
Caning is a BDSM practice consisting of hitting the bottom with a flexible stick.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Apr 16, 2022
- 6 min
Domestic Discipline - Conservative BDSM?
Domestic discipline is a form of dominance/submission without the usual BDSM paraphernalia. Its Christian fundamentalist version raises...
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Hermes Solenzol
- Apr 9, 2022
- 4 min
Hot Spicy Buns
A BDSM scene in which chili peppers are rubbed on the buttocks.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Mar 28, 2022
- 7 min
Anal Sex and Prostate Stimulation as Sources of Pleasure in Men
By stimulating the prostate, anal sex in men produces pleasure and orgasms different from those of the penis.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Feb 23, 2022
- 7 min
The Neuroscience of Sub Space in BDSM - Endorphins, Noradrenaline and Serotonin
This coveted state of bliss and euphoria in BDSM scenes may actually be different mental states In the BDSM community, submissive space...
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 23, 2021
- 4 min
Sadism, Empathy and Compassion in BDSM
How a sadist creates an enjoyable BDSM scene by empathizing with the submissive BDSM (Bondage, Dominance-Submission, Sadism and...
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