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Consent Is Not As Simple As It Seems
Understanding consent is key to prevent sexual abuse and rape.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 12, 202412 min read


Lies About Prostitution: 3) Sex Workers Hate Their Job and Their Clients
Prostitutes like their work because it helps and pleasures others.
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 25, 20235 min read


Lies About Prostitution: 2) Prostitution Degrades Women
Prohibiting prostitution violates the consent and intimacy of the sex worker and her client.
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 24, 20234 min read


Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 23, 202311 min read


Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 6, 20233 min read


A Sex-Positive Manifesto
The principles of sex-positive culture are interdependent and logically anchored in personal freedom and autonomy Sex-positive culture...
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 11, 202210 min read
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