top of page



How to Avoid Hurting the One We Love
How emotional abuse creeps into relationships.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 16, 202310 min read


One-Legged Love
Dating an amputee made me discover her inner strength and find a new meaning for beauty.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 29, 20235 min read


Love On Trial
How romantic love is poisoned by myths about sexual exclusivity, possession, jealousy, eternal love, mind reading and dependence.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 5, 20228 min read


Is casual sex unethical?
Sex is ethical without love or outside a relationship
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 2, 20226 min read


When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Secret Relationship
The story Olivia and Paul are polyamorous. They have been married for many years. All that time, they have had an open relationship,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 19, 20226 min read


When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Monogamous Intruder
Some people come to polyamory with a secret agenda The story Janet meets Keith at the party of some common friends. He’s handsome, witty,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 13, 20225 min read
bottom of page