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The Two Phases of Romantic Love
Brain imaging studies of people in love show that romantic love happens in two phases: falling in love and established love.
Hermes Solenzol
Aug 23 min read


Does Love Make You Stupid?
Neuroscience shows that love, far from making you stupid, increases social intelligence and emotional resilience.
Hermes Solenzol
Jul 114 min read


Polyamory, Feminism and the Myth of the Noble Savage
A critical examination of the idea that prehistorical humans were egalitarians and polyamorous.
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 11, 202311 min read


The Tea Ceremony
Following the orders of Julio, her dominant, Cecilia pays a visit to his fiancé, Laura, who has a few surprises in store for her.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 8, 202318 min read


Love On Trial
How romantic love is poisoned by myths about sexual exclusivity, possession, jealousy, eternal love, mind reading and dependence.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 5, 20228 min read


A Sex-Positive Manifesto
The principles of sex-positive culture are interdependent and logically anchored in personal freedom and autonomy Sex-positive culture...
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 11, 202210 min read


When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Secret Relationship
The story Olivia and Paul are polyamorous. They have been married for many years. All that time, they have had an open relationship,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 19, 20226 min read


When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Monogamous Intruder
Some people come to polyamory with a secret agenda The story Janet meets Keith at the party of some common friends. He’s handsome, witty,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 13, 20225 min read
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