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Andrew Huberman, I Am a Little Mixed Up About You
The credibility of podcaster Andrew Huberman is questioned by a multiple cheating scandal.
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 3, 20245 min read
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Consent Is Not As Simple As It Seems
Understanding consent is key to prevent sexual abuse and rape.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 12, 202412 min read
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How to Avoid Hurting the One We Love
How emotional abuse creeps into relationships.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 16, 202310 min read
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The Origins of Dominance-Submission
Dominance-submission frees ourselves from the psychological pressure of pride and shame.
Hermes Solenzol
May 8, 20237 min read
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One-Legged Love
Dating an amputee made me discover her inner strength and find a new meaning for beauty.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 29, 20235 min read
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The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 15, 202313 min read
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Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 6, 20233 min read
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Politically Correct Dogmas That Are Complete Bullshit - “Most Women Do Not Orgasm From Penetration”
Debunking the politically correct dogma that women do not orgasm from penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse and do not like it.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 31, 202210 min read
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Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
A survey of sadists reveals that they inflict pain to achieve pleasure, connection and intimacy.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 22, 202211 min read
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Being Monogamous and Altruistic Is Driven by Oxytocin in the Brain
Oxytocin and vasopressin in the brain drive monogamy, altruistic punishment in the ultimatum game, and social bonding.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 26, 20224 min read
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Why Do Masochists Enjoy Pain?
Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 11, 20228 min read
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Love On Trial
How romantic love is poisoned by myths about sexual exclusivity, possession, jealousy, eternal love, mind reading and dependence.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 5, 20228 min read
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Menopause Will Not Stop You - Sex as You Age as a Woman
Menopause cause low libido and pain during sex. Low sexual desire does not prevent arousal, pleasure and orgasms.
Hermes Solenzol
May 31, 202210 min read
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Is casual sex unethical?
Sex is ethical without love or outside a relationship
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 2, 20226 min read
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When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Secret Relationship
The story Olivia and Paul are polyamorous. They have been married for many years. All that time, they have had an open relationship,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 19, 20226 min read
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When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Monogamous Intruder
Some people come to polyamory with a secret agenda The story Janet meets Keith at the party of some common friends. He’s handsome, witty,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 13, 20225 min read
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