The Origins of Dominance-Submission
Dominance-submission frees ourselves from the psychological pressure of pride and shame.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 29
- 5 min
One-Legged Love
Dating an amputee made me discover her inner strength and find a new meaning for beauty.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 15
- 13 min
The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 6
- 3 min
Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 31, 2022
- 10 min
Politically Correct Dogmas That Are Complete Bullshit - “Most Women Do Not Orgasm From Penetration”
Debunking the politically correct dogma that women do not orgasm from penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse and do not like it.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 22, 2022
- 11 min
Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
A survey of sadists reveals that they inflict pain to achieve pleasure, connection and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 26, 2022
- 4 min
Being Monogamous and Altruistic Is Driven by Oxytocin in the Brain
Oxytocin and vasopressin in the brain drive monogamy, altruistic punishment in the ultimatum game, and social bonding.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 11, 2022
- 8 min
Why Do Masochists Enjoy Pain?
Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 5, 2022
- 8 min
Love On Trial
How romantic love is poisoned by myths about sexual exclusivity, possession, jealousy, eternal love, mind reading and dependence.
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Hermes Solenzol
- May 31, 2022
- 10 min
Menopause Will Not Stop You - Sex as You Age as a Woman
Menopause cause low libido and pain during sex. Low sexual desire does not prevent arousal, pleasure and orgasms.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Feb 2, 2022
- 6 min
Is casual sex unethical?
Sex is ethical without love or outside a relationship
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 19, 2022
- 6 min
When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Secret Relationship
The story Olivia and Paul are polyamorous. They have been married for many years. All that time, they have had an open relationship,...
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 13, 2022
- 5 min
When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Monogamous Intruder
Some people come to polyamory with a secret agenda The story Janet meets Keith at the party of some common friends. He’s handsome, witty,...
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