Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 15
- 13 min
The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 6
- 3 min
Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 22, 2022
- 11 min
Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
A survey of sadists reveals that they inflict pain to achieve pleasure, connection and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 4, 2022
- 11 min
The Feminist Sex Wars: Radical Feminism Against Sex-Positive Feminism
Radical feminism and sex-positive feminism has been battling for 50 years.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 1, 2022
- 10 min
Scientists Find the Areas of the Brain Involved in Masochism
Masochist pain activates brain areas involved in empathy, emotion and consciousness, but not in addiction.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 11, 2022
- 8 min
Why Do Masochists Enjoy Pain?
Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Oct 26, 2022
- 10 min
Playing With Fire
Fire play in BDSM consists of setting the skin briefly on fire, or touching it with a flame.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Oct 4, 2022
- 12 min
The Art of Spanking
A spanking weaves an erotic theme using the position of the bodies, force of the slaps, cadence and ritual.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jul 8, 2022
- 10 min
Sexual Service and Domination in BDSM
Dominance/submission uses vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and fucking machines for sexual control.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jun 14, 2022
- 10 min
Are Vegans Better at Sex?
veganism is a risk for anemia, depression and anxiety. Vegan men do not have stronger erections, higher testosterone or higher sex drive.
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Hermes Solenzol
- May 3, 2022
- 8 min
The Art of Caning
Caning is a BDSM practice consisting of hitting the bottom with a flexible stick.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Apr 19, 2022
- 13 min
Why Is Sex Shameful?
Sexual shame seems to be part of human nature, but its causes are mysterious. The book of Genesis tells us that when Adam and Eve ate the...
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