Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 15
- 13 min
The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 2
- 8 min
The Evidence for Free Will and How Denying It Devaluates Freedom
Denial of free will is based on religious or mystical ideas and can have dire consequences by making it ethical to control the mind.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 22, 2022
- 11 min
Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
A survey of sadists reveals that they inflict pain to achieve pleasure, connection and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 6, 2022
- 14 min
Pain Is Not Suffering
Pain is a sensation that is not always unpleasant, while suffering is a state of being based on emotions, values and meaning.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 21, 2022
- 12 min
Musings About My Ego
The ego appears when shame and pride take over our consciousness and fill it with cravings.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 11, 2022
- 8 min
Why Do Masochists Enjoy Pain?
Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jun 21, 2022
- 11 min
How Neuroscience Explains Consciousness
Neuroscience explains consciousness as hierarchical properties of the mind.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Apr 19, 2022
- 13 min
Why Is Sex Shameful?
Sexual shame seems to be part of human nature, but its causes are mysterious. The book of Genesis tells us that when Adam and Eve ate the...
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 7, 2021
- 10 min
Masculine Virtues - and Their Dark Side
Masculinity is anchored in biological sex differences Our biological sex - being male or female - is an integral part of our humanity....
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