Breath Play: The Air Choke and the Blood Choke
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Asphyxia during sex can be done using an air choke or a blood choke, which block air entry or the blood supply to the brain, respectively.


Hermes Solenzol
- May 8
- 7 min
The Origins of Dominance-Submission
Dominance-submission frees ourselves from the psychological pressure of pride and shame.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Apr 10
- 7 min
Controversial Issues in BDSM
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 30
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The Knife
Erotic story in which a butch lesbian dominates a rich blonde using mind-fucking, forced nudity and knife play.
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Hermes Solenzol
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Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 15
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The Art of Mind-Fucking
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jan 6
- 3 min
Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 23, 2022
- 7 min
The Spoiled Submissive (Part 2)
Erotica about a submissive newbie that includes spanking, bondage and domineering sex.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 22, 2022
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Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 13, 2022
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How to Achieve Sub Space
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Hermes Solenzol
- Nov 11, 2022
- 8 min
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Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Oct 12, 2022
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Erotic scene in which the boss, a double amputee, has sex with his secretary to recover the masculinity that he thought he had lost.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jul 28, 2022
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Top Disease
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Hermes Solenzol
- Jul 8, 2022
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Hermes Solenzol
- May 14, 2022
- 12 min
Orgasm Control and Chastity in BDSM
BDSM sexual control include edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, conditioned orgasm, forced orgasms, penis cages and chastity belts.
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Hermes Solenzol
- Apr 16, 2022
- 6 min
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Hermes Solenzol
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Hermes Solenzol
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Hermes Solenzol
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Hermes Solenzol
- Dec 20, 2021
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