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Hermes Solenzol
Dec 26, 202411 min read
What Happens in a Dominance/Submission Relationship?
Dominance-submission has the elements of obedience, surrender, service, discipline, demeanor, punishment and mind-fucking.
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Hermes Solenzol
Mar 29, 202410 min read
How to Recognize Abuse in BDSM Relationships
Red flags for abuse in BDSM.
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Hermes Solenzol
Feb 14, 20248 min read
Altered States of Consciousness in BDSM
BDSM induces altered states of consciousness known as sub-space and top-space
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Hermes Solenzol
Jan 12, 202412 min read
Consent Is Not As Simple As It Seems
Understanding consent is key to prevent sexual abuse and rape.
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Hermes Solenzol
Dec 2, 20238 min read
The Difference Between Sadism and Cruelty
Sadism is the consensual infliction of physical or emotional pain while cruelty is to make people suffer for an ulterior goal.
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Hermes Solenzol
Nov 14, 20234 min read
What To Do If Choking Goes Wrong
Advice on what to do if a person choked during sex of BDSM is unconscious or does not have a pulse.
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Hermes Solenzol
Oct 11, 20236 min read
Evidence of Brain Damage Caused by Choking During Sex
Scientific studies show that women who are choked have more psychological problems and changes in brain connectivity.
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Hermes Solenzol
Sep 30, 20236 min read
Can Choking During Sex Cause Brain Damage?
Choking during sex can produce brain damage from neuronal death from anoxia, reperfusion injury, and changes in heartbeat.
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Hermes Solenzol
Sep 29, 20233 min read
Breath Play: The Air Choke and the Blood Choke
Asphyxia during sex can be done using an air choke or a blood choke, which block air entry or the blood supply to the brain, respectively.
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Hermes Solenzol
Sep 21, 20233 min read
How deathly is choking during sex?
Death by autoerotic asphyxiation is less common that thought. Still, choking is the most deathly BDSM activity.
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Hermes Solenzol
Sep 20, 20235 min read
Why do people enjoy being choked?
People like to be choked because they find it pleasurable.
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Hermes Solenzol
Sep 16, 20232 min read
How Common Is Sexual Choking?
Several surveys show that college students increasingly practice choking during sex
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Hermes Solenzol
May 8, 20237 min read
The Origins of Dominance-Submission
Dominance-submission frees ourselves from the psychological pressure of pride and shame.
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Hermes Solenzol
Apr 10, 20237 min read
Controversial Issues in BDSM
Controversial issues in BDSM include sexual predators, consent, choking, drugs, mental problems and domestic discipline.
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Hermes Solenzol
Jan 29, 20235 min read
One-Legged Love
Dating an amputee made me discover her inner strength and find a new meaning for beauty.
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Hermes Solenzol
Jan 23, 202311 min read
Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
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Hermes Solenzol
Jan 15, 202313 min read
The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
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Hermes Solenzol
Jan 6, 20233 min read
Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
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Hermes Solenzol
Sep 11, 202210 min read
The Birthday Present
Cecilia and Julio decide that she will take Lorenzo’s virginity as a birthday present.
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Hermes Solenzol
Aug 1, 20226 min read
Kinky Games in the Park of Montsouris
Erotic story in which two young lovers reenact the novel Story of O with a spanking.
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