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What Happens in a Dominance/Submission Relationship?
Dominance-submission has the elements of obedience, surrender, service, discipline, demeanor, punishment and mind-fucking.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 26, 202411 min read
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Figging — the Kink of Putting Ginger Up Your Butt
Figging is inserting ginger in the anus or the vagina to produce a burning erotic sensation
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 30, 20248 min read
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How to Recognize Abuse in BDSM Relationships
Red flags for abuse in BDSM.
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 29, 202410 min read
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Altered States of Consciousness in BDSM
BDSM induces altered states of consciousness known as sub-space and top-space
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 14, 20248 min read
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Consent Is Not As Simple As It Seems
Understanding consent is key to prevent sexual abuse and rape.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 12, 202412 min read
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Evidence of Brain Damage Caused by Choking During Sex
Scientific studies show that women who are choked have more psychological problems and changes in brain connectivity.
Hermes Solenzol
Oct 11, 20236 min read
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The Origins of Dominance-Submission
Dominance-submission frees ourselves from the psychological pressure of pride and shame.
Hermes Solenzol
May 8, 20237 min read
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The Knife
Erotic story in which a butch lesbian dominates a rich blonde using mind-fucking, forced nudity and knife play.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 30, 202312 min read
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Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 23, 202311 min read
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The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 15, 202313 min read
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Responsibilities of the Dominant and the Submissive
A list of responsibilities of the dominant and the submissive that derive from the ‘safe, sane and consensual’ rules of ethical BDSM.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 6, 20233 min read
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Why Do Sadists Enjoy Inflicting Pain?
A survey of sadists reveals that they inflict pain to achieve pleasure, connection and intimacy.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 22, 202211 min read
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How to Achieve Sub Space
In BDSM, sub space is an altered state of consciousness mediated by adrenaline and endorphins.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 13, 20225 min read
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Why Do Masochists Enjoy Pain?
Masochists enjoy pain by itself and to achieve sub space, focus, catharsis, empowerment, orgasms, vulnerability and intimacy.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 11, 20228 min read
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Playing With Fire
Fire play in BDSM consists of setting the skin briefly on fire, or touching it with a flame.
Hermes Solenzol
Oct 26, 202210 min read
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The Art of Spanking
A spanking weaves an erotic theme using the position of the bodies, force of the slaps, cadence and ritual.
Hermes Solenzol
Oct 4, 202212 min read
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Top Disease
Top disease in BDSM is behaving as a dominant with people who have not consented to dominance-submission.
Hermes Solenzol
Jul 28, 20229 min read
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Cecilia’s First Spanking
Spanking scene in which Cecilia overcomes her religious repression and offers her naked bottom to Julio
Hermes Solenzol
Jul 27, 20228 min read
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Sexual Service and Domination in BDSM
Dominance/submission uses vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and fucking machines for sexual control.
Hermes Solenzol
Jul 8, 202210 min read
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Orgasm Control and Chastity in BDSM
BDSM sexual control include edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, conditioned orgasm, forced orgasms, penis cages and chastity belts.
Hermes Solenzol
May 14, 202212 min read
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