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Use It or Lose It - Sex as You Age as a Man
Testosterone maintains the health of aging men and is stimulated by having sex.
Hermes Solenzol
May 24, 20227 min read


Climate Change Will Not Destroy the Earth
Climate change will not destroy the Earth or the biosphere, or cause humans to go extinct; but it may eliminate Western civilization.
Hermes Solenzol
May 20, 202211 min read


Orgasm Control and Chastity in BDSM
BDSM sexual control include edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, conditioned orgasm, forced orgasms, penis cages and chastity belts.
Hermes Solenzol
May 14, 202212 min read


The Art of Caning
Caning is a BDSM practice consisting of hitting the bottom with a flexible stick.
Hermes Solenzol
May 3, 20228 min read


My Spiritual Path
This has been my quest for self-knowledge, self-transformation and meaning I started developing my philosophy of life when I left...
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 26, 20225 min read


The Russian-Ukrainian War - Roundup of the Best Articles
Links to Medium articles from Ukrainian eyewitness and expatriates.
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 19, 20223 min read


Why Is Sex Shameful?
Sexual shame seems to be part of human nature, but its causes are mysterious. The book of Genesis tells us that when Adam and Eve ate the...
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 19, 202213 min read


The Erotic Revolution
A conversation about sex, political change and inner liberation Excerpt from my novel “Games of Love and Pain”, to be published on June...
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 18, 20227 min read


Domestic Discipline - Conservative BDSM?
Domestic discipline is a form of dominance/submission without the usual BDSM paraphernalia. Its Christian fundamentalist version raises...
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 16, 20226 min read


Hot Spicy Buns
A BDSM scene in which chili peppers are rubbed on the buttocks.
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 9, 20224 min read


Anal Sex and Prostate Stimulation as Sources of Pleasure in Men
By stimulating the prostate, anal sex in men produces pleasure and orgasms different from those of the penis.
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 28, 20227 min read


A Sex-Positive Manifesto
The principles of sex-positive culture are interdependent and logically anchored in personal freedom and autonomy Sex-positive culture...
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 11, 202210 min read


How to Find Happiness
Happiness is not pleasure, joy, love, or the absence of suffering. Happiness is not an emotion, but a state of being. Should we be happy?...
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 6, 202211 min read


The Russian-Ukrainian War - My Thoughts
The war started in 2016, and we are losing it, but we will probably win in the end As if the risk of slowly cooking our planet by pumping...
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 26, 20229 min read


The Neuroscience of Sub Space in BDSM - Endorphins, Noradrenaline and Serotonin
This coveted state of bliss and euphoria in BDSM scenes may actually be different mental states In the BDSM community, submissive space...
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 23, 20227 min read


Is casual sex unethical?
Sex is ethical without love or outside a relationship
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 2, 20226 min read


When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Secret Relationship
The story Olivia and Paul are polyamorous. They have been married for many years. All that time, they have had an open relationship,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 19, 20226 min read


When Polyamory Goes Wrong - The Monogamous Intruder
Some people come to polyamory with a secret agenda The story Janet meets Keith at the party of some common friends. He’s handsome, witty,...
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 13, 20225 min read


Is Knowledge Valuable for Its Own Sake?
Ethics philosophies are unclear on whether knowledge has intrinsic value. Science is the source of technology, but the knowledge it produces
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 29, 20214 min read


Is It Ethical to Force People to Get Vaccinated?
Vaccines come before individual freedom, just like any other civic duties Almost a year ago, on January 8, 2021, I received the first...
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 25, 20217 min read
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